What New Parents Should Know Before Bringing Baby Home

eventMay 15, 2026

You have packed the hospital bag and maybe rehearsed the drive, but the shift from “we’re having a baby” to “we’re home with a baby” still catches many families by surprise. This guide pulls together newborn care basics worth reading before discharge: what to sort at the hospital, what “normal” often looks like in the first days, and red flags that mean you should phone your paediatrician (or local equivalent). It summarises and adapts ideas from The Bump; see the Source section at the end for the original article and context.

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Before you leave the hospital

Coming home outfit

A simple onesie or footed sleeper, a hat, and socks (if feet are bare) are enough. Healthcare staff often remind parents not to overdress: a common rule is that babies need about one more layer than an adult would feel comfortable in. For cold weather, tuck a blanket over the baby in the car seat, but avoid thick bunting or bulky coats under the harness; in a crash, compressible padding can leave slack and reduce how well the straps hold your child.

Car seat

Hospitals typically require an approved rear facing infant seat, correctly installed in the back seat, with straps snug and the chest clip at armpit level. Install and practise before birth if you can; many regions offer free car seat checks (for example via road safety or child passenger programmes, search for what is available where you live).

Paediatrician (or family doctor) lined up

The first visit is often within two to three days of birth. Meeting a practice beforehand can help you choose someone whose style fits your family; many practices offer informal “get to know us” visits.

First days at home: the rinse cycle

Sleep, eat, diaper, repeat. Here is a compact picture of what many newborns do, and a few things that look odd but are common.

Sleep

Many newborns sleep a lot early on; sources in the original article cite up to about 20 to 22 hours in a day for some babies in the first weeks. Prioritise safe sleep: firm flat surface (crib or bassinet), fitted sheet only, no pillows, loose blankets, toys, or padded bumpers in the sleep space, following current guidance where you live.

Feeding

Small stomachs mean frequent feeds. Breastfed babies are often fed on demand, roughly 8 to 12 times in 24 hours is a ballpark range mentioned in the source. Bottle fed babies (expressed milk or formula) might take roughly 2 to 4 oz every 2 to 4 hours, with your clinician adjusting for your child.

Weight after birth: It is common for newborns to lose about 5 to 8% of birth weight as fluid from delivery shifts; many regain birth weight within one to two weeks, and breastfed babies sometimes take up to about three weeks. Your provider will track this; ask if you are unsure.

Wet and dirty diapers

Diaper counts help you see intake between weigh ins. One framing from the article: in the first week, wet diapers may roughly match the day number (one on day one, two on day two, and so on), then from day six onward aim for about six to eight wets per 24 hours. Stools: often at least one a day for the first three days, then perhaps three to four daily for many breastfed babies; formula fed babies may stool less often, even not every day can be normal. Always confirm patterns with your clinician if you are worried.

Stool appearance: Meconium (first days) is dark and tarry, normal. Then breastfed stool often looks runny, seedy, mustard yellow; formula fed stool may be firmer and clay like. Grunting and straining can look dramatic; babies are still learning how their bodies work.

Crying

Crying is a major communication tool for hunger, tiredness, temperature, wet diaper, overstimulation, or illness. You will gradually learn your baby’s patterns. If you feel overwhelmed or angry, do not shake a baby (shaking can cause serious brain injury). Put the baby in a safe place (such as the crib), step away, breathe, or hand them to another trusted adult.

Umbilical cord stump

Usually leave it alone: keep it dry, sponge baths until it falls off, give it air, and fold the diaper down so it does not rub. It typically detaches in about 7 to 10 days.

Going out and visitors

Newborns have immature immune systems. Outdoor walks in open air are often fine and good for caregivers too; crowded indoor spaces may be worth limiting in the early weeks (the source suggests roughly six to eight weeks as a cautious window for some enclosed public spaces, ask your provider what fits your region and season).

For visitors: fewer is often better early on. Everyone should wash hands before holding the baby; avoid kissing the baby, especially near the face. Young children who are not siblings may need extra boundaries. Visitors should be up to date on recommended vaccines where applicable (the US article mentions Tdap and MMR as examples, your local schedule may differ).

Skin and eyes

Baby acne is common and usually clears without picking (picking risks infection). Cradle cap (scaly scalp patches) is also common and often resolves over weeks to months; call the doctor if it worsens or worries you. Eyes that sometimes look crossed can be normal early while vision is still developing; persistent concerns are checked over time by your clinician.

When to call the doctor

You can always ring for reassurance. The original article lists urgent prompts such as:

Yellowing of skin or eyes (possible jaundice)
Fewer than six wet diapers in 24 hours, or no stool for 48 hours
Poor feeding or refusing feeds
Fever 100.4°F (38°C) or higher, confirm how your team wants temperature taken (rectal readings are often preferred for young infants in US guidance; follow your own country’s advice)
Difficulty breathing
Repeated vomiting
Very sleepy or hard to wake (listless)
White patches in the mouth (possible thrush)
Severe or unusual rash
Very frequent stools with mucus or foul odour
Excessive crying with no clear cause

Save your practice’s after hours number so you can reach the on call clinician when something feels off.

Source

This post summarises and adapts content from The Bump: What Every New Parent Should Know Before Bringing Home Baby. The article credits expert input (for example nursing and paediatric sources named on the original page) and was updated August 2019 on the site at the time of writing. For the full piece, product links, and any newer medical edits, read the original on thebump.com.